Oh heyy, so, I’m all married and stuff. I could go into a long speech about all of the details and gush about every minute of that day, I really, really could, but I’m not going to. Instead, I will just say that I have never felt more blessed, cherished or loved than I did that day…awesomeness all around! To be expected, right? Right. But, what I am going to say next is what I want you to pay attention to….I am not by any means depressed that it is all over, not even a little bit.
Do you know how many people asked me about the dreaded and rumored post-wedding/honeymoon “letdown”? I started getting questions about it 2 months before the event even happened and they have really been rolling in now that I am officially a Mrs.! Listen to me people…when two adults decide to get married its because life, together, is good, full, happy & passionate….at least 90% of the time…there is no letdown when you wake up to that life every single day.
A pending wedding can be a stressful, money-eating, fight-inducing monster…and hopefully, like mine, it is so overwhelmingly wonderful that any bit of negative it might have caused is quickly forgotten, but there is nothing wrong with looking forward to going back to the wonderful little life that spurred that promise for forever. Money will finally be saved, new cars will be purchased, home improvements will begin, dinner dates will be had, fun with friends will be enjoyed, children will be…discussed and our silly little life with all of its good and all of its bad will keep us on our toes every day.
So, if you were worried…don’t be and if you weren’t worried, good for you!